Pedophilia is a form of Paraphilia is a group of mental disorders involving sexual attraction towards objects of unusual or unconventional sexual activity. In people who suffered from a disorder Pedophilia, an object that can provide sexual satisfaction for him was the son of prapubertas. So, the Pedophile is an adult who gain sexual satisfaction through physical contact with a child and sexual prapubertas.
What causes someone to lose their deviant sexual behavior disorder or one of them Pedophiles? According to the view of Psikodinamika, people who suffered from Paraphilia is someone who is afraid of heterosexual relationships (relationships between male and female) are conventional, even for relationships that are not related to sex. People like this are having problems/barriers in the development of social skills and his sexual development. He was not able to establish social relationships or sexual intercourse that is reasonable in the adult world.
While the experts/scientists Cognitive-Behavioral has some other views as follows:
- A paraphilia is a result of conditioning or learning, that if someone stimulating herself with a certain way that it is not considered a socially reasonable he obtained satisfaction, he then repeated it so that created a paraphilia behavior.
- Childhood most people who suffered from paraphilia shows they are often the victims of physical and sexual abuse and grew into a family where the relationship between her parents distracted. This experience can contribute to low levels of social skills, low self-esteem, a sense of loneliness, and lack of intimate relationships, so they are trying to find sexual satisfaction in ways deemed unfair (because they are our best so).
- Cognitive distortion (chaos) (assumes a reasonable thing that unnatural, irrational thoughts that many).
The person with Paraphilia generally have a background of emotional relationship with a family (not close emotionally), the values are not clear/consistent, no expression of emotion in the family of an unnatural (for example showed excessive affection, sense of outraged redundant), or a double bind emotional relationship (parent possessive but laid waste at the same time), and the existence of a history of sexual and physical violence in the family. The conclusion within the family itself is already there is pathological.
Paraphilia disorders usually begin to appear on the teen's age, and often failed to identify the family because the family is itself problematic. Unidentified usually start after problems arose. The person caught committing sexual abuse against children, then it is known as a person with Paraphilia or Pedophilia. We need to
know also, someone may display one or more of the Paraphilia, and this pattern may be an aspect of the other mental disorders such as schizophrenia, depression, or a personality disorder.
What can we do when you come across someone who suffered from Paraphilia or disorder Pedophilia around us? Take it to the psychologist for the therapy. The sooner it is known and in therapy, the less casualties and the greater the probability of a change in behavior. If the required medicines, psychologists will collaborate with the psychiatrist in the handling. However, if it involves criminal acts such as those of Emon's case
It became the domain of the police in advance.
Effective therapy usually involves various forms of therapy (cognitive and behavioral) and then also accompanied the social skills improvement training. The therapy takes time. And until now there has been no research that proves the Paraphilia can be recovered (not relapse again interference can be a lifetime) due to limitations in the research that can be done against this Paraphilia.
Tips for parents to prevent their children have a deviant sexual behavior:
- Create emotional closeness in family communication patterns by creating a loving, understanding, and openness.
- Give time to the family. Use of a child in play and watch. Invite your activity and chat about her feelings. And lead it to understand new things she meets so that he can acquire a correct understanding of such things will be.
- Apply the values in a clear and consistent within the family.
- Do recreational activities and worship together, it strengthens the relations between family members and increase your faith.
- Accept each other for what they are. Being open and loving, not only can you criticize and find fault. This will make the children more open to what he feels, can understand and accept themselves, and more confident. Thus children are not easily influenced by the wrong values wherever he is and be able to conduct yourself in the Association.
Other types of Paraphilia :
- Fetishism
a person's dependence on objects that do not live in order to obtain sexual stimulation. Its victims are mostly men. For example the horny with woman's underwear or women's shoes. - Transvertic Fetishism
Disorders where a man sexually aroused when she wore clothing or equipment of other women. - Incest
Sexual intercourse between close family, where marriage is not allowed between them. - Voyeurism
A real preference in order to obtain sexual gratification by looking at others in a State without clothing or being sexual intercourse. - Exhibitionism
Preferences are clear and repeated to obtain sexual gratification by demonstrating his genitals on others who do not wish, sometimes in children. - Frotteurism
Sexual orientation by touching people with no provision unexpected. Actors (men) may be rubbing his genitals on the thighs or buttocks of a woman, or holds the genitals or breasts of a woman. Usually done in places that allow the perpetrators to escape the crowded bus, for example, or the streets. - Sexual masochism and sadism.
Sadism: the craze to acquire or enhance sexual satisfaction by inflicting pain (physical) or embarrass others. - Masochism
the craze to acquire or enhance sexual satisfaction by making himself the objects that are being hurt or humiliated.
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